Are you racked by a nagging suspicion that something just isn't right at home?

TEN  SIGNS  YOU  MAY  HAVE  A  CHEATING  SPOUSE

1.  Grooming

New loves require more effort to impress; new clothes, new hairstyles, new fragrances etc  may be needed. If your partners exercise regime changes they may be trying to look buff for someone new. 

2.  Thoughtfulness

Often a cheater will become much more attentive and seem more caring to their partner to overcome the guilt of a new love. By the same token, as the affair matures the cheater may become overly critical as a way of justifying the affair

3.  Lack of Interest

When we are being excited in new ways by new people we can lose interest in the ones we love. Has your partner suddenly become less interested in your home renovations, your holiday plans or your Childrens schooling?

 4.  Follow the Money

The saying goes “if you want to play; you have to pay”. Has your partner changed their spending habits by spending more, or in different places? Have the Credit Card Statements become lost or misplace before you see them?

  5.  Physical Evidence

“Lipstick on your collar” as the song says “told a tale on you” but the evidence may be a lot more subtle like an unfamiliar scent or a strange stain. Also look out for the partner who comes home and immediately wants to shower or do laundry. They may be eliminating evidence.

6.  Secret Phone Messages

Is your partner getting a lot more sms messages than usual? Do they respond to them from another room or delete them quickly? The same applies to emails and the odd telephone calls that hang up when you answer. Phone bills will contain hints to unusual activity, but watch out when they are lost or left at work.

 7.  In the Bedroom

Has your partner lost interest in sex? Do they seem distant and less interested in your needs, are they becoming mechanical? The excitement of an affair can cause home to seem very mundane. Sudden requests to try something new may also be a warning sign.

  8.  Travel

Has your partner changed the amount of travel they do alone for work or pleasure? A desire to be alone away from prying eyes may lead to this. Travel allows cheaters to spend more time together and act like a couple.

9.  Social Activities

New people expose us to new things! Has your partner shown an interest in new social activities or a new group of friends? Likewise, if they want to see less of old friends. This may be guilt, lack of interest or fear that someone knows about the affair.

10.     The Internet

Cyber affairs are a lot more common than most of us realize. Is your partner spending more time on the internet than usual? Are they using chat rooms a lot or just using the internet a lot at unusual times? Using the internet late at night may reflect a need for privacy.You may feel that flirting on the internet is harmless as long as it doesn’t go any further. If this is your idea fine …. But don’t let your partner convince you. Ask yourself “would I be comfortable with my partner flirting at a party?” If the answer is no, then say no to cyber flirting.

Disclaimer

This information is given for information purposes only. Regardless of how many signs you identify there may be a reasonable explanation. Remember, there is absolutely no substitute for good communications in any relationship. 

Copyright 2006, Precision Investigations

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